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We are Justin and Melora Moore. We have been married almost two years, August 2007. We live in Chattanooga, TN. Melora works at a boarding/day school called Baylor school where she is the Director of Counseling. Justin recently completed his Master's Degree in Business Administration from The University of Tennessee at Chattanooga He also works in Marketing for a Graphic Design/Web Hosting company. We have a beautiful golden retriever named Kelsey. We recently made an addition to our family with a Australian Shepherd puppy. We love our life together and look forward to sharing more of it with you.

Friday, August 28, 2009

Big Details



(www.kiroastro.com/writings/perspective)


Melora (my lovely wife) typically writes on our blog, but I had a thought today which I felt compelled to share because it brought a lot of things in my life into perspective. After having watched a documentary about the Sun, one single nugget stayed with me. It is the the simple fact that the Sun is 400 times bigger than the moon & the moon is 400 times closer to the earth than the Sun.
For those of you needing help with the concept I've included a picture. The fact that the Sun is 400x larger and the moon is 400x closer is proven by what is commonly known as a complete solar eclipse.
1 - if the moon where further away - No total eclipse is possible
2 -if the moon where closer - No total eclipse
3 -if the sun where larger,smaller,further,closer - No total eclipse

This is a HUGE detail that someone DIDN'T miss.

After doing several home improvement projects to finish all the last minute details of the hardwood floors, the baseboards and trim work - I now appreciate great attention to detail. I also appreciate statistics.
So I asked myself this question "What is the probability of this happening by accident (or naturally)?" How many random universes would it take for this to happen again?" This reminded me of some Truths about who God is.

If God puts this much attention to detail and consideration into this part of His creation, how much more does he care for me. A total eclipse happens about every 1.5 years. I don't understand its purpose, but to me it's evidence that some bigger architect designed it this way. It is a continual reminder that God has everything under control and has thought things through. Even the biggest details we may not even notice.

Saturday, August 15, 2009

Update on Shady

This pictures were taken with the camera generously loaned to us by our friends Stephanie and Matt Rector. Thanks guys. We would not be able to capture the sweet pics of our new baby.

We went to Nashville for a few days this week. We stayed at The Embassy Suites. If you did not know, they have a great pet policy. For a fee you can take as many pets as you want. They also offer a Manager's Reception with free cocktails in the evening and a made to order breakfast in the morning. We had a great time. Justin made lots and lots of trips out the door, down the elevator, through the lobby, and out the side door to the grassy area to walk our dogs. Shady still gets up at least twice a night so this was a little trying on him by Friday. Justin was such a trooper though. Only a few accidents in the room. Below are some pics that we have taken over the past few weeks.


Sleeping again. This kiddo sleeps all the time. When he is not sleeping he is trying to chew on something. We are learning a lot about behavior modification.


This is a pick of him sleeping on the air vent in the kitchen.


Shady sleeping next to his hot dog squeaky toy.










I hate to admit it but I took this picture while driving. He looked so cute it was hard to resist.


The car ride was exhausting.



Shady really enjoyed laying on the bathroom floor. I guess because the tile was cold. A few times we found that he had crawled behind the toilet to take a little nap.



Shady sitting high on the bed. He really thought he was royalty in the hotel. Got lots of attention from anyone in the lobby when he was going out to potty.



He looks sweet in this picture but it is likely that he is getting ready to pounce.



I think he was trying to go to sleep or something. It takes him a little while to find just the right spot before bedding down. Usually we put him in the crate before he finds his spot on the bed. At home he enjoys sleeping on the air conditioner vents.



Shady does a lot of biting. This is kind of getting frustrating. Yesterday Justin put Shady on the bed to "wake me up" and he quickly headed straight toward my head and bit my nose. He drew blood.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

How do you do it?

For all those who might be wondering how I do all the coupon stuff, I thought I would give a little summary on the helpful tools I use to save money and stay under budget with our grocery bill.

First of all, I love the money saving blog named Southern Savers. This site is a free blog written by a woman named Jenny. Everyday there are many postings that help people save money. She gives lists that match the store sales with coupons. Basically she takes your grocery store sales paper and lists below each item on sale all the coupons that are available for that item. Most grocery stores change sales every Wednesday. Publix, Bilo, Ingles, Foodlion. She posts Kroger list on Monday I think. You must check this site out. It is awesome. If you are new to couponing and have never used the site there is a great little introduction she offers. When you go on the page on the right side underneath where it says, "Welcome to Southern Savers", there is a click here for any newcomers. You should definitely read this first, it helps to explain coupons lingo and how you can save so much at your grocery store.

The trick is this...

Stockpiling.
I am sure that most of you go to the grocery store (or Walmart) two to three times a week to get what you need to make dinner for your family based on recipes or menu you have created. Well buying based on the rock bottom prices in the store is how to save the most. For example, when rice or cereal is the cheapest ever, it makes sense to go ahead buy two or three boxes (or more if you have the storage) so that you never have to buy it at the expensive regular price again. Usually grocery stores rotate sales weekly, and eventually every item that you use regularly will go on sale at a rock bottom price.

For example. Let's say Hamburger Helper is $2.49 a box at regular price. The grocery store often runs deals where the item is Buy 1 Get 1 Free. Well in Bilo or Publix lingo this actually means 1/2 price. So instead of paying $2.49 you actually pay $1.24. Well, then if it is combined with a coupon. Usually the Hamburger Helper coupon is $1 off when you buy 3. So for three boxes of Hamburger Helper you actually are paying $2.73. Wow! It is like you are getting three boxes for the price of one. In this case I think that it is a good idea to go ahead and get three or six boxes. I will have used all of them by the time they go on sale again. Walmart's "Everyday low price", will never beat that. This is just an example, I do not actually remember how much Hamburger Helper is.


Where do you get all those coupons?


First of all I usually buy about two to three newspapers every Sunday. The cool thing about Southern Savers is that they actually list the coupons that will be in Sunday's paper each week. This posting is usually on Thursday, so you can already know what coupons to look forward to on Sunday. TIP!!!! You will want to get a newspaper from the biggest metro area closest to you. Even though I live in Chattanooga, I try to get a Atlanta Constitution or Birmingham News because for some crazy reason the coupons in these papers are better.

On Southern Savers grocery lists, she provides links to the printables available for the items that are sale. It is as easy as that. When you look at the list all you have to do is click on the link for the coupons discounting the items that you want. You will understand when you look at the site.

There are other sites too.
coupons.com The update all the coupons at the beginning of every month. You can usually print two of each coupon.

www.redplum.com

www.smartsource.com

A Full Cup. They offer an amazing coupon database that lists all the coupons in the world. Yes, it seems to be an exhaustive list of coupons. So if you want to know if there is a coupon for Post Cereal, all you have to do is search on this site and find out if there is a coupon for the item. They also have printables for Target and other stores too.

Fiddledeedee.com For all of you guys who have a Winn Dixie this site gives coupon match-ups for that store. Southern Savers does not do Winn Dixie lists.

Attention Target Shoppers This is a site that does coupon match-ups for Target. I have used it a few times and saved great at Target. Target has store coupons which you can combine with Manufacturer coupons for free or almost free items. Can I get a Wow!!!

I also subscribe to a magazine call "All You". It is a magazine you can buy only at Walmart. However I have a subscription so I do not need a reason to go to Walmart. They have tons of great coupons each month. Some of the coupons are higher value than you usually see in the regular newspapers. They magazine also has great recipes and tips for women.


CVS


CVS, Walgreens, and RiteAid is a whole different story. You can get tons of stuff for free or for very little out of pocket. Southern Savers has a great explanation for how to do it. It is so worth it. I prefer CVS. They are very customer friendly and make using their system very easy. If you are someone who needs toiletry items, make-up, diapers, even food items, and paper products. Whatever it is you can usually get it at amazing sales or free by using the directions through Southern Savers. She usually puts the lists up on Thursday or Friday and the sales do not begin until Sunday. This helps give you time to get your lists ready with the coupons that go with them.

Other sites that help with drug store deals

www.survivingthestores.com

www.iheartcvs.com

www.iheartwalgreens.com

www.iheartriteaid.com


My brain is full of couponing information. I have been doing it for almost two years. I have only been doing it aggressively for about five or six months. I usually save about 70% at the stores. Justin has a great spreadsheet that I track all my deals.

You ask how much time does it take. At first it make take a little time. I will not lie to you. However, once you get your coupons organized then all you do is pull them out each week and put your list together and head to the stores.

If you have questions please comment. I love seeing other people adopt this and save big.

Good luck!!!

Wednesday, August 05, 2009

Patiently Waiting

Ok. Is it just me or it is really hard to wait for things that we really want. I can surely testify on how hard it is to wait. Honestly, I can not stand it. I often tell God if He will just tell me what He is planning then I will gladly wait on it. I guess He knows better, because He is still not telling what He is planning.

Recently, Justin and I have made a really cool discovery. Over the past several nights we have gone out to our backyard to let our little puppy go potty. Justin pointed out that there is a very large spider web right outside the door strategically posted around the flood light that illuminates the yard. This spider is big and I mean BIG. On the first night of seeing the bug, I wanted to kill it instantly. Let's just be honest, spiders are creepy. Well, Justin was curious, so I left it alone and went inside.

Over the past few days we continue to observe the web. Our stays outside with Shady has lengthened since we have begun the watch. Something occurred to me tonight as I watched the web and nothing happened. This spider has to be very patient to get what it wants. It might be very very hungry but still it waits. The spider has no idea how long it will have to wait. As I watched, it seemed to say,"I will wait all night if I have to. Heck, I will wait all night every night. What ever it takes." Well, I have known God to speak to me through lesser subjects, so...

"Yes, Lord, I will wait all night, every night, if I have too. What ever it takes."

Also, I am reminded through watching this spider, God still provides. He is providing for this spider and many other spiders out there. I know God is going to provide for us. I know God has a plan for us. No, I don't necessarily like to have to wait on it. But, I feel better knowing that He is there, and He knows I am here waiting.

Center of our Marriage

Colossians 1:16-18

For by him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things were created by him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. And he is the head of the body, the church; he is the beginning and the firstborn from among the dead, so that in everything he might have the supremacy.

This was the scripture the Justin's dad used in the message shared at our wedding. This has become the foundational scripture for our marriage. Often when things feel a little rocky I am reminded of this scripture. I truly believe that our marriage was created by God. I know that I could have not caused something so wonderful to happen. Believe me, I tried. Thus, I want our marriage to constantly be to glorify Him. I know that when things seem to be falling apart, I can always trust that because we are centering our marriage on Him, He WILL hold us together.


The following are lyrics of a song by Charlie Hall that is based on the beautiful scripture above

You’re the center of the universe
Everything was made in You Jesus
Breath of every living thing
Everyone was made for You

:Pre-Chorus:
You hold everything together
You hold everything together

:chorus:
Christ be the center of our lives
Be the place we fix our eyes
Be the center of our lives


We lift our eyes to heaven
We wrap our lives around your life
We lift our eyes to heaven, to You


Oh Lord, I pray that this remains true in our lives each and every day we live.

Monday, August 03, 2009

To You, My Love


I Justin, take you, Melora to be my wife. I commit myself in covenant before God and these witnesses to you and only you. From today until death, I do promise and affirm, I will stand with you as your godly husband. Through sickness and health, in plenty and in want, through the joy and the pain. I commit to strive in God’s grace and strength to fulfill your needs whether physical, emotional, or spiritual to my very best ability, because I believe you deserve the very best. I vow to be true and faithful, forsaking all others, clinging to you. Because I desire God’s best, I surrender my will and plans to Him and rely on His guidance and love, to love you. Melora, I promise to love you as Christ loves the church. Where you go, I will go. Where you lodge, I will lodge. Your people will be my people. Your God will be my God. This is my marriage covenant to God and to you.

I Melora, take you, Justin to be my husband. I commit myself in covenant before God and these witnesses to you and only you. From today until death, I do promise and affirm, I will stand with you as your godly wife. Through sickness and health, in plenty and in want, through the joy and the pain. I commit to strive in God’s grace and strength to fulfill your needs whether physical, emotional, or spiritual to my very best ability, because I believe you deserve the very best. I vow to be true and faithful, forsaking all others, clinging to you. Because I desire God’s best, I surrender my will and plans to Him and rely on His guidance and love, to love you. Justin, I promise to submit to you, my husband. Where you go, I will go. Where you lodge, I will lodge. Your people will be my people. Your God will be my God. This is my marriage covenant to God and to you.